I know the only way to help them is to first find a way to connect, build trust,establish that way in we all openly acknowledge we relate. I will save them! I know I can do it,and I know this is my purpose;this is my fate. As for myself.. Again, I'll sweep it under the carpet so long as I can afford to,so to speak.. As I have. Unfortunately, I am at risk.. And to a higher extent than anybody here could guess because I choose to not let them see me so vulnerable, if I can avoid it. So maybe nobody can see anything other than the one that is.. Shallow as well. They don't realize that there is something other than the obvious beyond my eyes.